She Makes The Rules (SMTR Co)
Join the best community in the world for Female Led Relationship discussion and She Makes the Rules website is completely owned and run by real women. A list of rules to be obeyed by all malesubs in a female led However, they presume a loving relationship, where the wife treats the husband. A practical and opinionated introduction to Female-Led Relationships. Follow up on any rules and limitations you decide for your male.
Rules of the Road — Female Led Relationships
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Some quick questions to consider before joining For the Women Are you making decisions for your family? Are you the one people turn to in a crisis?
Are you the 'rock' your family depends on? Are you the one who makes the plans for your family? At work are you the woman with all the answers? And maybe you even think he's crazy, but you're willing to at least look into it? Has anyone ever referred to you as an 'in charge woman', 'exceptionally confident', 'very clear in asking for what you need', or feels that you have that potential? Do you plan events for your friends and family?
For the Men Do you simply like being around women who are confident? Are you wanting to support her in embracing her inner bossiness and building self confidence? Unless the Woman seeks eye-contact, the submissive will keep his eyes lowered at all times.
When walking with his Mistress, or any Woman, the submissive will keep his gait in step with hers, which usually means taking smaller steps. The submale should always be at least a step behind; but not too far, because he must open all doors.
Respect is shown by a submissive as long as he never fails to forget his lowly role in life. The submissive must always be pleasant, never argue and never pout. The submale should be given a new name by his Mistress to symbolize his submissive state.
If the submale is a sissy, it should be a feminine name. A submale surrenders control to his Mistress. He surrenders control of his body, how he spends his time, how he dresses, what he eats, where he sleeps, the friends or acquaintances he is allowed to keep. In all aspects, the Mistress controls the submale.
Failure to control his orgasm is disobedience. If the Mistress prefers simply to torment the submale and deny him release, then the submale must control himself to provide Her than pleasure.
He must dedicate himself to abstinence and thank his Mistress humbly for removing the pleasure of ejaculation, thus allowing him to dedicate his lost pleasure to Her. If the Mistress demands satisfaction through sexual intercourse, the submale must be able to control effectively his own orgasm so that it is timed to the pleasure of his Mistress. His purpose is not to please himself but to please Her. In all cases, the submale must remember that his orgasm does not belong to him — his orgasm belongs to his Mistress.
It is Hers to use, however she sees fit.
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The submale should be as clean-shaven as the Mistress requires: The submale may wear long hair, styled to imitate the superior styles of Women, only if the Mistress permits. The submale may never touch his own genitals without the permission of his Mistress. When washing, he must use a washcloth or brush, never his hands.
The submale will allow himself to be pierced or tattooed as required by his Mistress, if safely and professionally done. The submale is the personal property of the Mistress. This means the submale is always on a strict allowance, kept by his Mistress.
Feminization is training in submission.
Wearing items of Feminine attire separates the submissive from and puts him outside of the world of the macho male.